Nobody gave me tha answer to my question eariler they just pointed out my typos i am missing the middle finger?

Just tell her the truth about what it is. The more info she has the less likely she is to allow some guy to take advantage of her in this way. I also agree with the first post. Get some big burley dude (don't even really have to be related) to scare the **** out of him. He'll think twice before he does it again