Trying to put myself in my guy's shoes... guys, how would you react if...?

tell him your not just a toy to play with.. that your a whole package. that only and kissing comes with dating and they arent seperated. this may be too late to tell him but say you have been thinking about it and its about time for you to step up and take control of this mess and if your not worth it to him then theres no reason to stick around